We realize that most of our thoughts are actually vikalpas, Sanskrit for “thought constructs” and that these thought constructs all exist in the past or the future. These thoughts that we are having are not in this present moment at all, and because the past and the future don’t actually exist, these thoughts are actually pure fiction, just a kind of soap opera playing out in our minds.
The reality is that tricks and positions might give you a slightly different experience than before… but this isn’t the road to the real magic. The magic comes when we ourselves start to feel infinite and unchained in the world. It is when our past doesn’t live in our present and we have no fears of the future. It is when we know just how incredible it is to be human and alive on this planet… and we bring this presence into the bedroom (and every aspect of our lives).
We are in a time of great transition from the dark to the light. For millennia, we have lived with such a strange darkness all around us that has made us believe that we are small, insignificant, and that our lives are basically about toil and struggle. But that time is ending.